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How come everyone saids they don't want drama, like how their boyfriend doesn't remember to call you, or how your girlfriend doesn't do that, or your friend forgot to invite you to go with them to a party. People are so quick to say they don't want drama or they don't want to deal with drama. I say we need drama. I mean look at the one thing we can't imagine our lives without, television. Look at the shows, they are filled with drama. Even comedies have just as much drama as the serious drama shows. He likes her, but she likes him, who doesn't want a relationship but have sex to whom ever walks, but secretly has a crush on him. I mean drama everywhere. So why is it when a major issue comes our way, it seems to fell like we are in a badly written soup opera? Like for example, I have a major drama queen of a friend Troy, who has a lot of great things going in his life, but if he doesn't hear what he wants he goes off into these tantrums. Like if I don't feel like talking that night, he would get upset. If someone didn't do something like he wanted, he'll get upset. I mean he needs to grow up, and when I told him that, he gets into this sulking attitude with me. Which it brings me to ask myself, How much drama can we really take? [Unknown LJ tag]As a gay man I should be use to drama. We normally think we are all in a great show of “Gays of our Lives” As we return to the tragic story of “Gays of our Lives” we find Mike can't decide to go out with lovable Frank or exotic Jorge. And will Bradley find out that his boyfriend Seth is cheating on him with his brother Lance. And will Robby finally get over Tommy and move on with the handsome Max? Find out in Gays of our Lives. Enter theme club song. I found out in all great drama, you need a victim and a villain and most import the every loyal mediator. I've been a mediator a lot, and I don't mind, but the one thing I found out that is a major key to a lot of problems is the over looked communication. We have phones, e-mail, text message, and so on so why is it so hard to communicate on how we feel or desire? Life would be amazing if we was all mind readers like we wish our friends or partner were, so it would save us the trouble to communicate on how we really feel. But sadly we're not bless with that power. Even in the comics, the people who can read minds can't escape drama. Just ask anyone who's read the x-men comics. Now issues of drama doesn't have to involved the people in relationships, in fact the villain in the drama is sometimes is the victim. Loneness is a really horrible drama because instead of individuals, your looking at the victim, villain, and mediator all roll into one. They beat themselves up because they feel that they are the only person in the world who is feeling the pains of loneliness. Not thinking its a big world and a lot of people are just as lonely as they are themselves, and some are in relationship. If they think that it might save them doing some personal harm either psychical or mental. I should know. I'm preaching to the choir myself. I mean I'm going to be 27 in a few weeks, and I have yet to be in a relationship, and ironically I help a lot of people in their relationships. For the first time in my life, I don't tear up when I say I'm not looking for love and romance, When its time it will find me, and I find its a the main source of a lot of depression. People except too much from the people in their lives friends or partners. So what's the solution? Sadly I don't have the answer to that riddle, if I did I would be a very wise man. All I can give you fair reader is a few suggestions. One, Communication is unbelievably important. Be open to the ones who are in your life. If you have a problem with someone, tell them there and then. Don't allow it to fester within you, or you'll explode and do something foolish. Two don't expect too much from the people in your life. They are not those fictional characters you see on tv, they are human and they are their own writers to their own personal show. You are simply a co-star in their show and they are in yours. So if they do something that you wouldn't do, please don't snap at them. Three be patient with the people in your life, take time to get to know them inside and out. Finally be the friend to others as you wish people to treat you. Sadly these aren't new ideas I came up with, these are just common knowledge, So don't avoid drama my friends, embrace it, learn from it, and move on. </lj>
How come everyone saids they don't want drama, like how their boyfriend doesn't remember to call you, or how your girlfriend doesn't do that, or your friend forgot to invite you to go with them to a party. People are so quick to say they don't want drama or they don't want to deal with drama. I say we need drama. I mean look at the one thing we can't imagine our lives without, television. Look at the shows, they are filled with drama. Even comedies have just as much drama as the serious drama shows. He likes her, but she likes him, who doesn't want a relationship but have sex to whom ever walks, but secretly has a crush on him. I mean drama everywhere. So why is it when a major issue comes our way, it seems to fell like we are in a badly written soup opera? Like for example, I have a major drama queen of a friend Troy, who has a lot of great things going in his life, but if he doesn't hear what he wants he goes off into these tantrums. Like if I don't feel like talking that night, he would get upset. If someone didn't do something like he wanted, he'll get upset. I mean he needs to grow up, and when I told him that, he gets into this sulking attitude with me. Which it brings me to ask myself, How much drama can we really take?[Unknown LJ tag]
As a gay man I should be use to drama. We normally think we are all in a great show of “Gays of our Lives” As we return to the tragic story of “Gays of our Lives” we find Mike can't decide to go out with lovable Frank or exotic Jorge. And will Bradley find out that his boyfriend Seth is cheating on him with his brother Lance. And will Robby finally get over Tommy and move on with the handsome Max? Find out in Gays of our Lives. Enter theme club song. I found out in all great drama, you need a victim and a villain and most import the every loyal mediator. I've been a mediator a lot, and I don't mind, but the one thing I found out that is a major key to a lot of problems is the over looked communication. We have phones, e-mail, text message, and so on so why is it so hard to communicate on how we feel or desire? Life would be amazing if we was all mind readers like we wish our friends or partner were, so it would save us the trouble to communicate on how we really feel. But sadly we're not bless with that power. Even in the comics, the people who can read minds can't escape drama. Just ask anyone who's read the x-men comics.
Now issues of drama doesn't have to involved the people in relationships, in fact the villain in the drama is sometimes is the victim. Loneness is a really horrible drama because instead of individuals, your looking at the victim, villain, and mediator all roll into one. They beat themselves up because they feel that they are the only person in the world who is feeling the pains of loneliness. Not thinking its a big world and a lot of people are just as lonely as they are themselves, and some are in relationship. If they think that it might save them doing some personal harm either psychical or mental. I should know. I'm preaching to the choir myself. I mean I'm going to be 27 in a few weeks, and I have yet to be in a relationship, and ironically I help a lot of people in their relationships. For the first time in my life, I don't tear up when I say I'm not looking for love and romance, When its time it will find me, and I find its a the main source of a lot of depression. People except too much from the people in their lives friends or partners.
So what's the solution? Sadly I don't have the answer to that riddle, if I did I would be a very wise man. All I can give you fair reader is a few suggestions. One, Communication is unbelievably important. Be open to the ones who are in your life. If you have a problem with someone, tell them there and then. Don't allow it to fester within you, or you'll explode and do something foolish. Two don't expect too much from the people in your life. They are not those fictional characters you see on tv, they are human and they are their own writers to their own personal show. You are simply a co-star in their show and they are in yours. So if they do something that you wouldn't do, please don't snap at them. Three be patient with the people in your life, take time to get to know them inside and out. Finally be the friend to others as you wish people to treat you. Sadly these aren't new ideas I came up with, these are just common knowledge, So don't avoid drama my friends, embrace it, learn from it, and move on. </lj>
It's beginning to get harder to live here in this time and age. Everything is going up from food, gas, and even places to live. ( Read more... )
Sat, Apr. 8th, 2006, 02:05 pm For Good
I've been a disciple for four years now. I had a very busy work schedule, and it cause me to miss a lot of time to be at church. There is another reason why, I haven't been to church. Mostly because I'm scared to go back. Cause I feel very uncomfortable being at church cause of what some brothers think of me. They think I'm unfit to serve God because of something I have no control over. Now I'm not here to brag, or boast, but I had to say that so you can understand the rest of this letter. The reason why I'm writing this letter, is not to show off or to stick my tongue out at the brothers who said I can't be a disciple and go “Na Na Na” But on a side note. I found out that I don't need to worry about if someone thinks I'm not worthy of God's love, but rather I need to depend on his love over someone else's. But this letter was suppose to go to one brother, but I figure to be bold and share this letter to the Kingdom, well the part of the Kingdom who will read this. This brother was the closes friend I ever had. He fought to gain my trust. Once I allowed myself to trust this brother, he just didn't want to hang out any more. It hurts to see this once trusted brother, and see him not even know I'm in the room. I heard this song during a Quite Time and thought to share it. It reminded me of how I felt the members of the church who don't think I'm good enough to be a disciple and that brother who made me no longer want to trust anyone again. May God Bless You. Song: For Good Lyrics From the Musical Wicked ELPHABA I'm limited: Just look at me - I'm limited And just look at you - You can do all I couldn't do, Glinda So now it's up to you (spoken) For both of us (sung) Now it's up to you: GLINDA I've heard it said That people come into our lives for a reason Bringing something we must learn And we are led To those who help us most to grow If we let them And we help them in return Well, I don't know if I believe that's true But I know I'm who I am today Because I knew you: Like a comet pulled from orbit As it passes a sun Like a stream that meets a boulder Halfway through the wood Who can say if I've been changed for the better? But because I knew you I have been changed for good ELPHABA It well may be That we will never meet again In this lifetime So let me say before we part So much of me Is made of what I learned from you You'll be with me Like a handprint on my heart And now whatever way our stories end I know you have re-written mine By being my friend: Like a ship blown from its mooring By a wind off the sea Like a seed dropped by a skybird In a distant wood Who can say if I've been changed for the better? But because I knew you: GLINDA Because I knew you: BOTHI have been changed for good ELPHABA And just to clear the air I ask forgiveness For the things I've done you blame me for GLINDA But then, I guess we know There's blame to share BOTH And none of it seems to matter anymore GLINDA ELPHABA Like a comet pulled Like a ship blown From orbit as it Off it's mooring Passes a sun, like By a wind off the A stream that meets Sea, like a seed A boulder, half-way Dropped by a Through the wood Bird in the wood BOTH Who can say if I've been changed for the better? I do believe I have been changed for the better? GLINDA And because I knew you: ELPHABA Because I knew you: BOTH Because I knew you: I have been changed for good.
| You scored as Art. You should be an Art major! How bohemian!
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Tue, Nov. 22nd, 2005, 10:13 pm
Have you ever had one those nights where nothing goes as plan and turns up even better? ( Read more... )
Tue, Nov. 1st, 2005, 05:32 pm Reset Button
Have you ever wish life came with a reset button? You hit the button to reset your situation? Right now my life doesn’t seem to be getting better, but worst. I’m getting more bills everyday, but not enough o take care of them. It seems like I’m taking care of them very slowly. I need a second job, but I lost my resume, and I don’t know how I can work 3:30 to 12 5 days a week and add another job on top of that. I need to be more discipline, but I’m too lazy. I need a big change in my life. I need a second job; I just need to reset it. Because I know God only gives me what I can handle, but I feel like he is giving me too much. And it doesn’t seem to be improving, but getting worst.
I still can’t believe I am now 26 years old. I’ve been on this earth for 26 years. I’m looking forward in what’s around the corner for me. 25 was an amazing year. I got a new car, new apartment, made some great new friends and lost a few, became more comfortable of whom I am, and had to say goodbye to a lot of things I will love like church and school. I learned that I am a great guy that is easily over looked, and learn to be more independent. Became closer to friends like Earl, Jorge, Kira, and everyone’s favorite diva Lisa and I even became even closer to my mother and sister which I never had before.
I hope 26 would bring me closer to my dreams I have and get myself out of my financial bind. So I can wake up in the morning without fear of my bills. If I can get myself a boyfriend that would be great too. Tue, Oct. 18th, 2005, 10:44 pm
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The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision. -- Lynn Lavner Sat, Sep. 24th, 2005, 03:44 pm
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Your Birthdate: October 24 |
Born on the 24th, you have a greater capacity for responsibility and helping others than your may have realized.
You may also become the mediator and peacemaker in inharmonious situations.
Devoted to family, you tend to manage and protect.
This birth date adds to the emotional nature and perhaps to the sensitivities.
Affections are important to you; both the giving and the receiving. |
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